This has been a very difficult one to be certain of. Everytime I have an answer I have confidence with? Some event happens which shakes by faith. I will share the 2 worst events in Ukraine at some point.

To give some meaning to the Beauty Of Ukrainians. Number 1. They can be and often are some of the Worlds kindest people.

2. At the same time, Ukrainians can become offended at the drop of words which they may not understand. So be careful.

3. And never try to play them One against the Other. I have seen people become the victim of their owns Scams.

4. By the way that is a very sensitive world. Scam. I think like in any country; by instinct people always want to get ahead in life. So Ukraine when it comes to romance and outsiders operating a business can be a problem. Romance? What is it? Romance can be and come in many forms. It can even be to dream and have someone respond to your dream. For some it is all they want. To sort of play-act? For the one who searches for an actress Ukrainian female for romantic role playing;

Some Ukrainian ladies desire to be paid for living in the foreigner dreams. Some ladies want to be apart of outside dreams. I know both types of ladies.

5. Never expect a Ukrainian to go against another Ukrainian for Outsiders. Taboo if that should ever happen? Very much frowned upon.

For now I will tell you a story of my best friends in Ukraine. Brothers. Once came to me and said CJ I am done. I was like done with what? He says Ukrainian girls/women. I say, I do not understand. Aren’t you Ukrainian? He says yes of course. I say I do not understand. What’s going on? He says Ukrainian females, while very beautiful are; the most lying of women ever he believed. Then the told me his story of being in love with a woman and wanting to marry her. But for the year or so they dated; she was married!!! And never told him, until he asked to marry her!!! Wow.

His heart was broken badly. So he says I will leave Ukraine and search for a woman Not Ukrainian. I didn’t believe him. Sure enough he moved from Ukraine. In under 2 years he was not only married. But his new wife was expecting a baby in under 3 years when he showed me photos of his lovely wife. I think in under 4 years he showed me photos of his beautiful walking little daughter. Now a happy beautiful family.

CONGRATULATIONS DEAR BROTHER IF YOU EVER FIND THIS POSTING.

The bad events in Ukraine, I will update you on it. And how I determined some miraculous things about how Ukraine Government sees itself and sort of depends on the art of Ukrainian Scammers.

Of course not all Ukrainian people want such behavior. But there are some who do.

As to my purpose for coming to Ukraine? No not for romance exactly. Of course not that I would refuse.

First, I came at the request of an American.

Second i came and found Great Healing Love from Ukrainians.

Third I came to help Ukraine Heal. And that has become my life’s mission.

Ukraine is my adopted home!!! So those of evil you are wasting your time trying to

A. Force me away and B. Keep me away. Not going to happen.

I am

C J L. Cary

Thank You